Friday, August 14, 2009

FAMILY

F A M I L Y

I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
'Oh excuse me please' was my reply.

He said, 'Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you.'

We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said goodbye..

But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.

Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.

When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
'Move out of the way,' I said with a frown.

He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.

While I lay awake in bed, God's still small voice came to me and said,

'While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse.

Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door..

Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.

He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes.'

By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall.

I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
'Wake up, little one, wake up,' I said.

'Are these the flowers you picked for me?'
He smiled, 'I found 'em, out by the tree.

I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue.'

I said, 'Son , I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way.'
He said, 'Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway.'

I said, 'Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue.'

FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
that we are working for could easily replace us in
a matter of days.
But the family we left behind will feel the loss
for the rest of their lives.

And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?
So what is behind the story?

Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

ooops.....

didn't mean to mislead anybody - the previous post ("just a thought") was NOT written by me!(I wish it was-cuz, YES my parents are that AMAZING) -But, It was just an email my mom sent to me and I really liked it and wanted to save it! ENJOY.........

just a thought.....

Embracing Imperfection

When I was a little girl, my mom liked to make breakfast food for
dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when
she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening
so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned
toast in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed!
Yet all my dad did was reach for his toast, smile at my mom and ask me
how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night,
but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that toast and
eat every bite!

When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my
mom apologize to my dad for burning the toast. And I'll never forget
what he said: “Baby, I love burned toast.”

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him
if he really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said,
“Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And
besides - a little burnt toast never hurt anyone!”

You know, life is full of imperfect things......and imperfect
people. I'm not the best housekeeper or cook. What I've learned over the
years is that learning to accept each other's faults - and choosing to
celebrate each other's differences - is one of the most important keys
to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take
the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the
feet of God. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to
give you a relationship where burnt toast isn't a deal-breaker! We could
extend this to any relationship in fact - as understanding is the base
of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

The MONTH of May........

We started the month out with a great Mother's Day - One of my favorite things that our Elementary School sponsors is a 3rd grade Mother's Day poetry assembly.
All the 3rd grade students pick a poem(most are able to memorize it) and all the mother's who are able, get to come and listen. This year Nicole recited hers with two of her friends.
May 8th & May 10th, 2009


EACH OF THE STUDENTS GREETED THEIR MOM WITH A CORSAGE THEY MADE! THEY WERE ALL SO CUTE!


on Mother's Day, the kids gave me all kinds of fun stuff(in the picture above). Nicole kept reminding the little boys about the "deal they had made last night" - I am assuming the deal had something to do with NO FIGHTING....GET ALONG! - definitely what a mom wants!

then real quick before church - I got them all to sit for a quick picture.......
May 10, 2009


and later that day Jessica agreed to a few more pictures....


On May 12th, 2009 - we attended the NationAl Junior High School induction for Jessica!
We appreciate how well she does in school!


May 13th, 2009
The girl's and I attended the 2nd annual "Touch 1 Life" fashion show that my sister does to raise money for "Hope's Door" (a shelter for women & children). She does an amazing amount of work in order to put this on. I admire her dedication to help other people who are in such great need! It is sponsored by her studio "Studio D" and all of the sylists there (which include her husband,Victor, & her son, Britton.


May 15th, 2009 - brought us Eric's 6th grade field trip. This is an activity the little boys & I have enjoyed tagging along to. (Ryan was at Kindergarten this time and didn't get to go - boy was he bummed!)


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May is ending with a lot of events as well - we had a VERY eventful Memorial Day weekend, and the upcoming week is FULL of activities as it is the last week of school & baseball. I will try to post about all of these events soon..........

Friday, May 22, 2009

MY FIREMAN...

We got to go watch John and the other volunteer fire fighters burn this barn down .....
the kids loved watching their dad! He is AMAZING!







Friday, May 1, 2009

CINNAMON ROLLS

Before nap today Jason asked if we could make cinnamon rolls AND no bake cookies.
I told him I would think about it
(sorta hoping he would forget about it during nap) -
well, the first words out of his mouth when he got up from nap were
"can we make cinnamon rolls?"
Well, I said "yes," and the adventure began.
My kids LOVE cinnamon rolls SO much.
As we were enjoying eating them, it reminded me of one of my favorite pictures/memories.......
This picture was taken the end of 2004.......
Ryan was caught in "snitch mode"!
the crazy thing is, they weren't even cooked yet -
they just sort of unrolled as he was chewing! It really was funny!